Secret To Make Her Go Out With You

Are there magic words you can use to get that dream girl of yours to go out with you? Sounds hard to believe but there are words that will nearly cast a spell and make that girl feel compelled to go out with. Cool right?

I am going to share this with you because I know this is an area that worries guys. But hold on, in the process of approaching any woman, I lay out a complete strategy Click Here. If you use this technique alone without an overall plan or strategy, you may damage your relationship more than if you get turned down.

What Not to Say: Before we get into the actual words, let’s go over what message almost NEVER work. It rather puts you in an awful ‘psychological’ position. They are in two categories-The Plead and The Emergency. Here’s how the message sounds like.

The Plead: “Please Trish, let me take you out. Please. This sis the third time I’m asking you this week. Please go out with me.”

The Emergency: “Trish, can we go out some place today? It’s an emergency”.

Now I think you can see what is wrong with both of those approaches.

What to Say: Use curiosity and self-interest to your advantage. Two of the most powerful forces in the human mind are curiosity and self-interest. So here’s the BIG SECRET. When you combine the two, you have the recipe that will work magic. So let’s look at what you can say that works nearly EVERY TIME. In a friendly relaxed tone “Hello Trish. I want to let you that I appreciate what you did for me. So I’d like to take you to a nice place so I can personally thank you”.

Do you see how that uses both curiosity and self-interest? Trish won’t be able to resist “what did I do? What does he appreciate?’ She will be thinking. And she feels good because it is a positive message. Now before you tell her that you need to do the “set up” which is figuring out what she did that you appreciate. It can any small thing but needs to be plausible. But more importantly please have an underlying strategy like I lay out in the process of approaching any woman before you set up the date Click Here. If you apply this technique with no underlying strategy and she agress to go with you, you can do more damage than good if you do not handle correctly. Okay? All I’m trying to say is what you do before, during and after you get her to agree is more important than getting the date. Make sense? Have a plan Click Here.