Have you been dating a man and encountering one excuses after another? You might have a problem on your hand and it's not what he's saying.
Have you ever seen a man date a woman for a couple of years, then breakup, then meet another woman and in a very short while he's head over heels and talking marriage?
This happens all of the time. But women stay with men and put up with one excuses after another because these men know these women won't leave.
If your man already knows you're desperate for a commitment that you're giving him his second helping of his favorite cake, he wont give you what you want because you are ALREADY giving him all of what he wants.
Please sit back from reading this and think for a sec. If you cater to everything your boyfriend wants why would he want to give you marriage?
It's simple when you understand how men work. When a man puts up a road block like not having enough money for a wedding or wanting to live together to see if you're right for each other, it's a crap excuse and you've just played right into his hands.
Sorry to break it to you but you lost control when you decided to give your man all of what he's wanting and him not really giving you what you want.
It's not about manipulation. No honey. It's about being in control of YOU, having self respect and making your needs a priority.
Anytime a man starts making excuses for not having you as his number one priority, you'd better think twice about how much you're willing to give up just to keep him.
Nicole Gayle is the author of the e-book, How to Go from Girlfriend to Wife, written to help you take your man from maybe to "I do" - Be the kind of woman your man HAS to marry.
http://www.howtogofromgirlfriendtowife.com
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